they’re comfortable, rather than after a hospital discharge. There may come a time when it’s no longer safe for a senior loved one to live on their own. Which changes may indicate a need for assisted living? As you call or visit your loved one, pay attention to signs that your aging relative may need help. A decline in cognition — the ability to think clearly, learn new skills, and remember — may lead to unsafe and sometimes life-threatening behaviors. When visiting a parent, look for signs of cognitive impairment:· Do they seem more forgetful or confused?· Have you noticed mood swings or changes?· Do they often lose their train of thought during conversations?· Are they getting lost in familiar places?· Do they seem more anxious or irritable?· Do they lack energy or motivation?· Are they depressed? You may also notice changes in your loved one’s appearance and hygiene that indicate it may be time to talk about a different living arrangement. For example, you may notice your parent has unintentionally lost weight quickly. Sudden weight loss in seniors could be a sign of a serious medical problem, but it may also signal depression, cognitive problems, or behavioral changes that impede good nutrition, like limited mobility or financial constraints. If a loved one who’s typically well-groomed looks disheveled, or if their usually clean house seems cluttered, dirty, or disorganized, these could be warning signs that it may be time for assisted living. Families who are caring for an aging loved one at home may find living with their parent isn’t working out, and they may realize this living arrangement is hurting their relationship. Or, they may reach a point when the stress of caregiving is affecting the caregiver’s health. Caring for an aging relative is a major commitment that can sometimes cause friction. For caregivers, it’s important to consider several factors:· Can you provide the care your parent needs? Some people may
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