be willing to do the laundry and clean but may not feel comfortable providing the personal care a parent needs, such as bathing and toileting.· Is caregiving affecting your relationship with your spouse and children? Caregiving is time-consuming. Is providing care for a loved one straining your other relationships?· Are you feeling burned out? Do you feel like you’ve been neglecting your own health? Caring for an aging loved one can put a caregiver at risk for stress, depression, and chronic conditions like diabetes or heart disease. If you can’t care for an aging parent any longer, it may be time to consider assisted living. While many caregivers feel guilty about their decision, remember that moving your loved one to senior living may result in improved relationships, health, and quality of life for both yourself and your aging loved one. Read more: The Worrying Facts About Caregiver Health and Stress. How much does assisted living cost? Assisted living costs vary from one community to the next. Key factors determining elder care costs include location, community amenities, apartment size, and how much help your loved one needs. Different pricing models also affect costs. For example, while some assisted living facilities may be all- inclusive, others charge for services a la carte based on senior needs.The median monthly cost of assisted living in the U.S. is about $4,825 for a one-bedroom apartment, according to A Place for Mom’s proprietary data. However, costs may be as high as $6,000 a month or more depending on location. With this range in price, it’s no wonder that some people feel more prepared than others. “A lot of times, you do get the sticker shock, but that’s where our Senior Living Advisors can be really helpful. [They help families] consider other areas that may be less expensive, or companion suites, or looking at a large studio instead of a one-bedroom,” Gewirtz says. If you’ve previously received home care or are trying to choose between home care
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