residents. Most assisted living facilities also offer virtual tours if an in-person visit isn’t possible. Gewirtz recommends touring several communities yourself and then bringing your parent to your top two choices, keeping in mind which communities are most likely to appeal to them.“We’re not our care needs,” says Gewirtz. “[It’s about] determining who they are as a person and what makes them tick.” experience, and you may be dreading the conversation with your loved one. You may feel guilty or nervous about the move and wonder whether your senior loved one will adapt. Your family may not agree with your decision, or you may be struggling with how to talk with your parent about the move to assisted living. Downsizing and packing may also be stressful, overwhelming, and time-consuming. But while elder care is often a difficult topic, it’s one that many families ultimately can’t avoid. Taking a step-by-step approach can ease anxiety and make the move smoother for your family and your aging loved one. How do I move my loved one to assisted living? Moving a parent to assisted living can be an emotional Talking to a loved one about assisted living It’s often best to have conversations regularly about senior care before an emergency situation arises. Planning ahead will give you and your family time to think about options and discuss what you need to do to prepare. However, if your aging parent needs immediate help, it’s time to hold a family meeting. Consider your family dynamics to decide who to include. If your senior loved one is in good mental health, it’s probably a good idea to involve them. Set aside dedicated time, without distractions, to discuss their needs and potential solutions. It’s also important to be open to having a series of conversations before your family agrees on the right senior care choice. Here are some tips for talking to your parent about assisted living:·
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