community events, interacting with people, etc. There are lots of ways that you can practice making friends. Here are some tips on things you can do to make friends right away. The first thing you want to do is to become genuinely interested in other people. Learn how to listen to them. Learn how to let them talk for 5 minutes, 10 minutes, 20 minutes, 30 minutes, and just listen. Ask questions. People love talking about themselves.
TIPS FOR MAKING FRIENDS G FRIENDS
Break the Ice Gently:
• Become genuinely interested in other people. • Smile and maintain good eye contact. • Learn a person's name, remember it, and use it in the conversation. • Listen attentively and encourage people to talk about themselves. • Find a reason to give the other person a sincere compliment. • Center your discussion around the other person's interests. Look for interests that you have in common. • Make the other person feel like the most important person in the room.
Show Respect and Promote Engagement:
• Never argue. Be respectful of others' opinions. Don't say, "You're wrong." • Nod your agreement with the other person. Try to phrase points so they can easily say "yes."
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