Sebastian Brévart - MOVING ON: AN EXPERT’S GUIDE TO SELLING YOUR HOME DURING A DIVORCE

auctions, construction job bids, car sales, and even when a child begs a parent for candy at the checkout lane. Time is a powerful tool in negotiations. Real estate agents will tell buyers that they won’t get a good buy unless a seller is under pressure. For this reason, smart home shoppers will want as much information about you, the seller, as they can get. If a seller is in foreclosure and needs to sell before losing the property, a buyer has the upper hand. He knows the seller is under a time constraint. Buyers look for time-sensitive situations to push their price. Sellers who are behind on mortgage payments, recently retired, or are under contract for another home and dependent on this home sale are prime candidates for high-pressure tactics from savvy buyers. Buyers also play the waiting game. In real estate, acceptance time can be a powerful tool in price negotiations. From their perspective, the longer the house has been on the market, the more flexible the seller will be. The same applies to negotiations. The more they stretch out the negotiations, the more likely they will get the price they want. Why? Buyers want to become friendly, want to create trust, and ultimately want your willingness to agree to their terms. Your advantage is that the relationship is a two-way street, and they may not want to walk away empty-handed after gaining your trust. By exercising patience, you can maintain your position on terms and price. Conversely, on the Seller side, once an offer or offers are received, if possible I make the Buyers wait several days for a response. If you've every purchased a home, you know ho this can make you feel. After Buyers submit an offer, later that night they're in bed discussing the home, and plans for it. All these thoughts become emotional anchors that will continue to make the Buyers more and more attached to the home. The wife is shopping on Amazon for décor, or looking at furniture, imagining it (and her) in the new home with a new life. By the end of day two, if no response has been given, they are usually fighting about having offered too

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