Sebastian Brévart - MOVING ON: AN EXPERT’S GUIDE TO SELLING YOUR HOME DURING A DIVORCE

How did the buyer know about the time constraint? You may have unwittingly disclosed it in an earlier casual conversation when he asked why you were selling. Keep your conversations with prospective buyers and their agents limited to attributes about the house, or answering specific home related questions. Remember, in negotiating, less is often more.

DO GET THE LAST CONCESSION

Remaining calm and focused during the counteroffers is the key to getting the last concession. By asking the buyer to give something in return every time s/he comes back with another request, s/he will start backing away from making nonessential demands, rather than deal with the same thing coming from you. The less s/he thinks s/he can get, the less s/he will ask for, beyond what s/he really needs. S/he may be afraid you will request a concession that is important to him/her and come to the conclusion that letting you have the last concession will be in his/her own best interests. As a rule of thumb, I recommend conceding on small items first, and then address the larger items individually. (If you've already fixed seven items on their repair list, why should you be obligated to accommodate them on all ten, right?)

DON'T LET THE BUYER FLOOD YOU WITH CONCESSIONS

When a buyer submits an offer to you, unless it is a great one, you will want to bring counteroffers to the table. A different price and/or concessions such as shorter closing dates, terms, modifications of contingencies, incentives, etc., will enter into the picture. When reviewing the offer, carefully note any items that are unacceptable to you. A counteroffer is used, in effect, to accept some (or most) of the terms of the buyer’s latest offer, while modifying other items. Since there is no limit to the number of counteroffers that can be made, make the buyer wait

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